We’re gonna tell you straight up – first impressions DO matter, and they matter the most. Sure, we encourage everyone to get to know someone better, strike conversations, find out more, before coming to a conclusion of what kind of person someone else is; especially for first and blind dates!
With that being said, the harsh truth is first impressions really matter. Some people just choose to keep an open mind and then let nature take its own course before making a decision if the person across the table is someone they’d like to spend the rest of their days with. And then again, there are the others on the other end of the spectrum who would make a judgment there and then. This doesn’t mean they’re judgmental or “bad”, it just means they are a lot more selective than the rest of the people.
1. Everyone, somehow, makes preconceived judgments.
The ideal truth that everyone in the society wants to believe is that nobody should ever be judgmental. And if given the case that someone comes off as any slightly more judgmental, we condemn them. But nobody wants to face the truth that every single individual makes preconceived judgments when they first meet someone. It is just a matter of expressing their dismay or delight; closing their minds or opening them up; giving more opportunities or shutting doors up.
Before going into all the fancy clothes and deals, we have gotten first-hand news: Catch Vaniday for their GSS 2 days Flash Sale on the 7th and 8th July. Stay tuned to their social media to more GSS surprises!
So what can you do at Vaniday? It is a beauty services site where you get exclusive discounts if you reserve via their platform with these existing brick and mortar beauty shops!
To prepare you for the mega party, try these services:
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Get your hair done at LUXE XM! A new colour, or even get your hair styled just before the party!
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You can be wearing a really pretty dress, but the first thing one is going to notice about you in a masquerade party is your nails! Remember, you’ll be shaking hands AND holding onto wine glasses. So remember to get your nails done too!
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Lastly, remember to do your make-up to perfection! If you are sick of putting on mascara (oh my, don’t remind me of the times I have to remove them after a long day..) or putting on falsies, check out Lash Regrowth here!
Remember those prom gowns and glam dresses you bought but have only worn them once? You don’t even remember which box you’ve kept them in! The problem with such beautiful sequin gowns is that we hardly ever get a chance to wear it. We pay a high price for it, but the chances of the material spoiling is actually higher than the chances of us wearing it!
Style Lease, an online platform for you to rent designer gowns and dresses solves this problem. Wait, you may look at the word designer and think expensive! However, there are beautiful dresses for rental for as low as only S$55 for a 4-day rental!
We have selected these Great Gatsby-esque pieces for you!
Gold Glitter Glam
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This Sequin High Neck Ruched Side Dress is meant for you to flaunt those legs, ladies! Remember to pair this with high heels! And also, less accessories to neutralise the gold sequin! 😉
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If you’re looking to show off your collar bone and a little of your legs, this Eileen Fishtail Sequin Gown by Bariano is the perfect fit! Not to mention, timeless Black and Gold just like what Sam Sparro sang about!
Black Beaded Beauty
If you’re into more conservative pieces, black is the way to go. You can never go wrong with black. Matching of accessories and shoes would be a breeze!
At first glance, this Sequined Gown by ABS looks conservative and classy. Just don’t be surprised when you take a look at its back cut-outs! This is a true example of combining conventional cover-ups with cut-out beauty. The straps at the back land just right – at the right places, so it saves you trouble from looking for a reliable pair of nubra! 😉
Shimmer Silver Styles
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Its low back would definitely make you stand out in a crowd – especially at a masquerade event! Look at more details on this by Basix Black Label here!
Well well, remember Beyoncé during the 2015 Met Gala? It’s your chance to pull off a mini-Queen B this time during the masquerade party! Sure, it is nowhere as risque as Beyoncé’s piece, but this is a great combination of sophistication and safety! Don’t have to worry about your movements… But wait, it comes with a low back too! Find out more about this piece here!
Didn’t see anything that caught your eye? Click here to head to Style Lease and you can filter through your preferred choice of colours, price range, as well as designers! Before you go, quote GAIGAI15 to get a 15% off your gown reservations during check-out! Happy shopping!
3. Complete Your Cinderella Look!
Okay, if you haven’t heard of Zalora, I don’t know what to say! Seriously, the only issue we ever have (besides whether the seller is trust-worthy or not) when it comes to online shopping is whether the shoes will fit. With Zalora’s hassle-free return & exchange policy, and I repeat, HASSLE-FREE and FREE policy, it just solves this major problem for most of us!
All you gotta do is look through the web as you will, choose your favourite pairs and check out! Wait for them to be delivered to your door step, try them on, and if they don’t fit like it should, simply send them packin’ back into the very bags they came from and drop it off at a Singpost outlet!
The drop-off is literally just droppin’ it off and walkin’ away! You don’t have to fill in complicated forms, make payment according to weight or anything like that! The staff at Singpost would simply collect them and you may continue with your shopping! That is way too easy. On top of that, Zalora is having GSS Saleup to 70%off right now!
Here are some of our favourite picks!
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Killer heels are named killer heels for a reason – you strut down the walkway and kill it! I assure you that eyeballs would be following you wherever you go! This black pair would go well with any dress!
This is such a personal favourite. Pair it with jeans, or even a cute summer dress! Get it at S$34.90 here!
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This is such a personal favourite. Pair it with jeans, or even a cute summer dress! Get it at S$34.90 here!
Image from Zalora
For ladies who don’t do well with elevated heels, you may want to give this a shot. Muted grey colour is one of the trends right now, so are thin ankle straps! Pair this in a formal outfit, think blouse and pants, or even wear them casually with a white maxi dress!
We always talk about how Singaporeans don’t dress well – slippers, shorts and t-shirts in town! Oh my. 😱 But there’s always an excuse for it – IT’S THE WEATHER! ☀️ How can men even suit up on this crazy sunny island?
True enough, we all understand. As much as guys hate to dress up in suits here, ladies could relate with the melting of make-up! A walk across the street and that already means touching up your eyeliner or concealer! But let’s help these ladies another time.
For today, guys will be glad they chanced upon this article. 😉 With our Chief Personal Branding Analyst, Sammi Chiang’s help, we managed to discover some good deals of these awesome pieces for you at a steal! Yay to GSS!
What if he doesn’t like me? What if she doesn’t like my shoes? What if I overdress? What if… Just what if?
Don’t you worry now, for we have here – Ms Sammi Chiang, GaiGai’s very own Chief Personal Branding Analyst. We sat down to have a chat with her about her imaging experience at Fleek with GaiGai and also, to share the makeover session she had done with our male client QingHai!
GaiGai’s Chief Personal Branding Analyst – Sammi Chiang
